When I come out from a shower… She check and said why the floor is wet and not been dry out…
When I about to or out from No. 1 toilet… She said why smells so badly and quickly spray with air fresher…
When my son (Andrew) goes wi-wi No.2… She complaint he is not focus on the centre and dirty the place…
When I park the car behind her… She said did I hit her car and why it is so close…
When I drink with a cup and place on the table… She said why place the cup on this table…
When I left the keys behind door one day… She said why I dared to jump across the wooden gate and get in…
When I sit at the arm of a leather chair… She said don't sit there or the brand new chair will be deformed…
When I sit and watching TV or Video… She keep talking to herself as if nobody is doing house works…
When I ask Andrew to dress cloth outside bathroom… She quickly warn that don't sit on the sofa since he is wet…
When I help Andrew finishing meal on table… She lifts up Andrew's bow and tries to clean the table few times…
When she cleans the floor after diner… She said before she only clean twice a week but now every day…
When she saw I put Andrew to bed from car… She said Andrew is dirty and he must be changed before bed…
When she have visitors … She always check sofa and demand vacuum after the visitors left home…
When she asks her son to do home work… She can not even made him answer let alone moving…
When she took both kids to visit parent… My brother asked her why Andrew is not dressed up as her son…
When she knew something is not norm or outdate… She often offer or invite people to finish them off and don't waste…
When she saw a dog walking outside the front yard… She drops off everything & seriously urge the dog off from inside house...
When I was on the phone especially her phone… She winging as if she does not aware I do need a quite time…
When I on the phone and wave my hand to her… She said I try to hit her and yell louder and louder and crying…
When I ask her not be so fussy about trivial things… She said she is like that, and if I am not happy, go away, don't stay…
When I gave my son ice cream… She said he has to eat out side otherwise, ants will be home…
When I ask why the garden is so untidy… She said her husband was suppose to fix them…
When I ask why only care about some areas… She said she can only clean that much and mind your business…
When I speak in Vietnamese during debating… She said I try to let her husband know or damage her family relation…
When the toilet's tissue bin is full She said I have to clean the bin since they're all mine....
When I ask why can't you wake up my son
She said she did! and because my son doesn't want to wake up....
for him to go school with your son?
and also, why I do not wake Andrew up at 8:AM before I went to
have my shower. Want to know my excuse? yeh...
This is because I saw my sister, and her son
were still on bed, and I though, when they wake up they would have
also helped me to wake Andrew up and get him to the same school.
Since I have to leave home at 8:30 AM to work, and guess what!
She only prepare breakfast for her son, and her son's lunch box.
At this moment, I was stunt and don't know what to say. He is my son.
I realise the reality of life. therefore, I have to stay back until 9:00AM
and rush out verythings for Andrew and went to work.
What a lesson to me!
When my brother moved out of Wantirna house
during the week (Tuesday) ...
She said why I still stay at her home, and I have been given a
mercy of staying for longer than 1 month...She paranoid about
my non-response since I did not know how I am going to take
care of Andrew's before and after school cares... At last, I have
been reminded that all I have today is caused by my ex-wife's...
I also remember that my sister did not want to help my son
anymore (even my son and her son are in the same school...).
I and Andrew decide to stay at Wantirna house that night to
"take care" of my mum as "planned" by everyone...and I have
no choice but to arrange an after shcool care for Andrew to be
picked up by myself before 6:00PM.
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